Friday, April 1, 2016

Dear President & Mrs. Obama

Dear President & Mrs. Obama,

Today I saw the pictures of the two of you reading "Where the Wild Things Are" at the White House Easter Egg Roll. Besides being completely jealous of those who got to be there (that's right, I've entered the ticket lottery every year for the past 6 years since I had children of my own and not once did we get tickets...alas) I also found myself in awe, as I often do, of the two of you.

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Ah! Too scary!
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You see, in looking at these pictures, I didn't just see two confident people reading in a goofy way to a bunch of kids. Nope. I also saw two examples of humanity, kindness, and confidence.

Its no secret that I am a huge supporter of your politics, Mr. Obama. Any visitor to my Facebook page or blog would see very quickly and easily that I have been and continue to be a huge fan of yours. But one of the things that makes me so proud to have both of you as the representatives of our Nation is that there is more to you than politics. You clearly have a sense, everywhere you go that you are not only representing your own political views. You know you're more than just representatives of the United States of America. It is clear that you both realize you are humanitarians. You are examples of good will. You are an example to the world of what it means to be human. You are an example to children and adults alike, of how to be confident in who you are. Today, when my 6 y/o son, Ryan, gets home from school I will show him this video of the two of you reading. 


 You see, just yesterday Ryan delivered his first ever "presentation" in front of his class. His homework for a few days leading up to this presentation was to practice in front of his family. Having grown up competing in speech and debate I was eager to help Ryan with this project. As he practiced his "When I grow up" speech (OK, so it was just 6 sentences, but I think for a Kindergartner we can call that speech, right?) I coached him on how to look at his audience, how to effectively use hand motions to get his point across, and how to speak loudly, and not into the paper he was holding. A few times he said to me, "This is embarrassing." He's getting to the age where he understands the concept of embarrassment. Recently, when we went to see Zootopia in the theaters, just me and him, I started rocking out to Shakira's "Try Everything." I mean, how can you not dance to that song? And so, dance I did. And what did he do? He crouched in his seat and asked me to stop. Just a year ago he would have happily joined in the dance. But now, he knew people could see me (don't worry, we were in the back row, and this was the closing credits, we weren't bothering anyone). He was embarrassed. And to be honest, if he was your kid, watching you read at the Easter Egg roll, he may have been embarrassed too. Maybe Sasha and Malia were? 


But he's not your kid. He looks up to you. He knows you're our "Big Leader Guy" and even if he didn't state that he'd like to follow in your footsteps as President of the United States in his first big speech (sorry, the allure of a train engineer is just too great at his young age. Plus, he's wise. He knows being President comes with a lot of stress, especially with the likes of Mitch McConnell as leader of the Senate...but I digress) he does respect you and think you're pretty cool. So, yes, I will show him the video of the two of you reading Where the Wild Things Are and we will talk about how it can be fun to be silly and goofy in front of a crowd. We will talk about how the two of you weren't concerned about what other people would think when you made those awesome faces. You were just having fun and being yourselves. We will talk about confidence and I will hope that just a little bit of the message sticks. If we're being honest, I will hope that a lot of your messages stick. 

Just this morning, I was talking with my husband, and I said, "I think this is as good as it gets. I don't think our children will ever see another President and First Lady who are better examples of how to be a good person" than they have seen in the two of you. And sadly, two of my three children will likely never remember your presidency. Zachary and Connor are only 3 years and 18 months. I'm not sure either of them knows who the two of you are. 

Michelle Obama has her arm around me. Squee! 
But, I promise, they will know. I will share stories of your honesty, your integrity, and your leadership skills with them. I will explain that when I had the great privilege of meeting you, Michelle, in 2009, when I worked at Children's National Medical Center I saw first hand that your kindness and compassion is not just a show; It is genuine and natural. At the time I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with Ryan. You asked me about my pregnancy. You put your hand on my belly, you wished me the best of luck. You didn't just go around and talk with patients and families. No, you sat with them, you engaged, you cared. 

Star struck! 
I know plenty of people disagree with the two of you on many issues. I know many people do not think as highly of you as I do. And honestly, I have a hard time understanding that. Politics aside, you are true role models for children and adults alike.

As you end your time in the White House, and begin to think about your legacy and the work you will do in the remainder of your careers, I challenge you to think of ways you can continue to have an impact on the youth of our world. I don't want any of my children to forget you. Please, remain in the public eye. Please continue to show the world what it means to be happy, confident, smart, fun, and kind. Show the world what it means to have integrity; to have strong beliefs and to stand up for what you believe. Don't hesitate to continue to be an example of a successful marriage raising successful children. Our Country and our world needs more of the two of you! 

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President and Mrs. Obama, our world may not fully recognize it yet, but we have much to thank the two of you for. I think in the years to come it will be more and more obvious. I, for one, am most grateful to the two of you for putting a face on what it means to be compassionate and human, and for never making yourselves seem "above" the people you have served and represented during your time in office. I believe you think of yourselves just like the rest of us do: people doing the best we can, to do the best we can, in all we do. You have succeeded. Thank you. 

With greatest admiration and appreciation, 

Kristen Caminiti


2 comments:

  1. I agree with this whole heartedly! I think Mr. And Mrs. President Obama are two of the most wonderful people on earth. I really don't understand the angst around them, but I think it is born out of fear. It makes me very sad that they go so unappreciated by so many. I also feel that their legacy will improve with our understanding of them. I'm so glad you wrote this. Thank you

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  2. You are absolutely entitled to express your opinions and your appreciation to the President and First Lady, Kristen, my dear niece. This is your First Amendment right, and you should be able to exercise that right without any fear of intimidation or excoriation from others. I would certainly agree from all I've observed and learned that the President and First Lady are devoted to each other and to their daughters. While I happen to think very differently in terms of politics, culture, and morality, I believe that everyone (including yours truly) should respect your right to express your ideas in a cogent, forthright manner! I think we all could learn a valuable lesson from the wonderful friendship between the late Supreme Court Judge Antonin Scalia and his female peer, Supreme Court Judge Ruth Bader Ginsburg. Their ideologies were in complete contradistinction and yet that fact alone did not in any way have a deleterious effect on their cherished friendship off the bench. They respected each other, enjoyed opera and conversation together, and simply "agreed to disagree" in a civil manner. I admire the fact that they both possessed that unique ability, especially considering the fact that they both occupied such powerful positions and made such enormous decisions on some of the most critical current issues affecting our nation's cultural and moral norms. I likewise continue to have tremendous admiration for the acting ability of the late and beloved Henry Fonda and that of Jimmy Stewart as well. Once again, Mr. Fonda had very liberal tendencies in terms of his political views and Mr. Stewart was much more conservative in his political outlooks. Yet, they remained the best of friends, enjoying each other's company and respecting each other's incredible acting skills, as well as their political/personal differences. Kristen, as a devoted mother, I'm sure you are teaching your sons the value of respect, integrity, humility, patience, and compassion. How we live from day to day and how we treat one another within our family and in our other interpersonal relationships is what really matters! It is truly a shame when people abandon other family members and friends simply because there are religious, political, cultural, or ideological differences. So while I may not share your views, that's not the point! I am in total agreement with you on this point: Everyone in today's tumultuous world needs to show more mercy, forgiveness, understanding and compassion. Whether you are Catholic or not, that is the message that Pope Francis is trying to spread to everyone in the world, especially when it comes to unconditional acceptance of the indigent and the marginalized. I hope and
    pray that we will all soon learn to follow his lead. In conclusion, though you and I may "march to the beat of a different drum" in certain respects, we are still family! (And we both love to PLAY the drums-LOL!!) God bless!
    Your aunt,
    Anne Marie

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